One way a man can maintain and grow his relationship with his girlfriend is by impressing her friends. In most cases, her bffs (best friends forever) are her advisors. Her friends will advise her on anything including you. This is why it is always important to get them on your side. You don’t have to do the impossible to impress you girlfriend’s friends, here is a look at the tips.
1. Ask her friends their names
The first thing you should do when you meet your lady’s friends is to ask their names. This shows you are interested and will score you points. But that’s not all—you should also remember their names. In case you forget, don’t ask them to remind you, instead, ask your girlfriend.
2. Ask her friends about themselves
Lots of questions about what they do, what they like and what they don’t always works in your favor. Don’t ignore the boring one who keeps on bringing up her success stories. In fact, ask her more about the success.
3. Be yourself
Being natural is all you can do best and it demands nothing. Your girlfriend likes you the way you are and she wouldn’t prefer you being someone else before her friends. If her friends realize that you are not faking anything then they will definitely recommend you. They want the best for her. Being yourself is the best way to show them what your girlfriend likes about you.
4. Talk about your girlfriend
When you are with them, tell them what you like about your girlfriend and how great she is. But try not to be gush. Being too over the top is also dangerous and may lose you points. They may talk about it later and conclude you are too keen and so she should get someone who is less needy. Instead, you can talk about what an interesting woman your girlfriend is. Tell them the more you get to know her the more you love her.
5. Be complimentary to them
This is not easy. You have to make sure you keep it in the safe zone. But at least complement their jobs, taste in something or clothes. Avoid complimenting their body or face. You don’t want to be known as the creepy guy who makes shameless compliments on your girlfriend’s mates right before her eyes.
6. Offer them a drink
The small gestures your friends like may also impress your girlfriend’s friends. So, when you are out, you can offer them a drink. If she lives with her friends, then why not walk up to them with a bottle of champagne when you pay a visit. This is the easiest way to be referenced as a “real gentleman”.
7. Interact well with your girlfriend
Her friends should see how well you are treating her. But this shouldn’t only be done to show off, it should come from the heart. They can tell when you are being real and when you are not. They should be able to see it first-hand. So, try and be as respectful and caring as possible. Being protective also shows you love her. All they want is a man who can take care of their friend. So, don’t exaggerate but impress.